Thursday, October 23, 2014

Chitty Chatty in the lunchroom…


Chitty Chatty in the lunchroom…


Hey everyone! Have you ever wondered what our little ones chat about at lunchtime? Time where there is no academic stimulation and the teachers are away.

Well, I volunteer at my son’s school during his lunch hour. The ladies in charge of the lunch room and I got to talking about all the little conversation these amazing little ones come up with. I have noticed that in 3rd grade they all want to be the strongest and the bravest. Nothing can stop them and they like to “show off” (if you will) their strength. Little girls are chattier and like to chat with the boys at this age. There is even talks of who likes whom and sitting in a tree songs. LOL

Then I got to thinking… kids now at days mature so much faster then my generation did. I was still playing with dolls and was allergic to boys at that age! Here they are talking about who likes whom! So then comes the question… When is it time to chat about these topics with our little ones? Now at days, with all the technology our children are exposed to with information overload – what are we to do? My philosophy is, I will explain enough to keep his curiosity on check and in appropriate terms that he can understand, digest and that will not open up a can of worms for him. I believe in keeping the kiddo innocence as much as I can, but making sure that he knows to come to me at any time if he has a question or doesn’t know what’s going. Open communication!

What are your thoughts?? How do you deal with such chitty chatty!

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